Marriage Compromise: A New Institution?

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When I said that the marriage movement needed entrepreneurial thinking, this is what I was talking about: Charles Capps proposes to make space for a stable compromise on marriage by inventing a new social institution. It’s a bright idea. I comment on it over on First Thoughts this morning:

Capps argues that we should develop separate social institutions to handle two things which heretofore have both been handled by marriage: the social needs of the natural family, and the social needs of groups (whether in a sexual relationship or not) who cohabit and share assets. We seem to be entering a period of history where, in contrast to the previous period, significant numbers of people will cohabit and share assets without forming natural families. Mere justice, Capps argues, demands that we develop social institutions to serve the legitimate needs of these non-familial cohabiters (that’s my term, not Capps’; let’s call them NFCs for lack of something better).

I see three issues that will need to be tackled for this to become a viable way forward…

It’s not going to resolve the debate in the immediate future, but if the issues I address on FT are tackled, I think it’s a seed that could grow into a new approach that could offer a long-term compromise and something like social/political equilibrium.

In other words, moral consensus.

Is the Bar too low?

Recently I have been preaching through the book Acts, just in the last few weeks covering the key stories of Stephen and Philip. I’ve had this nagging question in the back of my mind ever since–Have we set the bar too low for deacons?

Technically, Stephen and Philip are never referred to as ‘deacons.’ However, most churches today consider the seven men of Acts 6 chosen to assist the early Apostles with caring for the Hellenistic widows as being the first deacons. Deacons, though, are mentioned in several others places in scripture, such as Philippians, which is addressed to overseers or bishops and deacons, and 1 Timothy 3 which lays out the qualifications for deacons. However, none of these passages gives specific duties for deacons.

Which leaves the church at somewhat of an impasse. The one passage that many consider to be a job description for deacons, Acts 6, never actually calls the men selected ‘deacons’ and only mentions caring for widows. On the other hand, the passages addressing deacons never give job duties. The church has solved the impasse by combining the passages and concluding that deacons are called to assist the elders (overseers) of the church. But what does it really mean to ‘assist?’

In many churches, it means caring for the church building. In other churches, it involves handling the mercy ministry of the church, caring for widows and orphans etc. What continues to nag at me is that Stephen and Philip, the first of the ‘deacons,’ are never recorded as actually caring for widows. Sure, that’s what they are commissioned to do, but Acts 6-8, nearly three whole chapters, is all about Stephen and Philip preaching! Stephen preaches to the Sandhedrin. Philip takes the gospel to the Samaritans first and then to the Cushite Eunuch before heading along the coast to Caesarea. Philip is probably “Philip the Evangelist” mentioned later in Acts. All of which raises the question, “Why don’t we expect our deacons to teach?”

In today’s church, we seem to have structured the offices of the church to be elders who shepherd and deacons who serve. However, the unspoken assumption in many churches is that elders are the teachers and the deacons are the handymen. But is this in keeping with the Biblical evidence? Stephen and Philip were not handymen but incredible evangelists! The fact that these men had to be filled with the Holy Spirit to be chosen and were commissioned through the laying on of hands leads me to think the church is guilty of setting the bar far too low if we only expect our deacons to care for the church building.

While the Bible is not extremely specific about what a deacon is called to do, the modern church needs to carefully consider that God gave the power of the Holy Spirit in a very special way to a specific group of people for a higher calling then just being handymen or only caring for the occasional material need. Should we be allowing and expecting deacons to put their God given gifts in action or are we holding them back from their Biblical task by setting the bar of expectation too low?

 

Cuban-American Professor Addresses Plight of Women and the Poor

Helen Alvaré, the George Mason law professor who is quickly becoming something of a female, younger Robert George, gave a predictably excellent talk at the National Catholic Prayer Breakfast on Thursday. For those interested, the video is here (though you have to skip to 19:19; the talk is a bit over 10 minutes).

Alvaré is a model of many things, including that rare but happy coincidence of truth, charity and wit. Here, though, she is an exemplar of messaging. What is the topic of her talk? Improving the plight of women and the poor. What is her method? Correctly employing empirical data. Was is the take-away message? Christian teachings on marriage, sex and family are undeniably good for the welfare – as even policy wonks measure it – of women, the poor, and society writ large. She weaves these three aspects together seamlessly, yet manages to avoid pietism, dryly data-driven (say it three time fast!) overtones, as well as an overbearing, I’m-so-into-social-justice type of condescension.

A few highlights:

  • “We don’t have to theorize about this anymore…we just have to face it, and begin fixing it.”

Interesting, because it seems that the theorizing approach is preoccupying far too many of us these days. (I write in my blog entry about marriage, again.)

  • “But policy makers are too often trying to deal with this gap between the rich and the poor on the cheap….”

Also funny, because it’s expensive, especially since the current administration has quietly gutted the welfare reforms of the 1990s.

  • “…And all of this is despite the clear empirical evidence that the only groups in the past who have ever received free contraception and sometimes abortion are the very groups that thereafter suffered the highest rates of non-marital births, abortions, sexually transmitted infections, and unintended pregnancies.”

This one worries me. To recap, Christian teachings on marriage, sexuality, and children have empirical evidence, strong philosophical reasoning (hey Robby George!), and, heck, plenty of women standing boldly in the public square and saying that yes, this is good for us. What else can we do?

Or, is the government’s goal less about preventing all of these woes and more about pushing a certain vision of the state’s role in our mundane existence.  Is this true?

The World Bank Does Have Something to Hide After All

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The World Bank does exactly one thing that’s clearly a positive contribution to the world: it conducts a gargantuan international survey of economic law, policy, regulations, etc. in every country. The Doing Business survey, which pretty much no other entity would be able to conduct, has provided invaluable data that scholars at the Frasier Institute (among others) have used to conclusively show a link between economic freedom and a multitude of positive outcomes like prosperity, health, higher living standards, lower poverty . . .

. . . so naturally the World Bank wants to kill the survey.

The conspiracy theorists were right all along. The World Bank does have something to hide: the truth about economic freedom!