Controversial!

illiteracy of so many kinds

(Illiteracy has so many faces, these days….)

The Catholic diocese of Harrisburg is teaching boys they shouldn’t wrestle girls and girls that they should expect and want more from boys and men than being slammed by them in a ring. Sounds sensible. A local columnist denounces the diocese for an “archaic” “decree.”

(source: Boys Shouldn’t Wrestle Girls. Is This Really Controversial? | National Review Online)

Well, now, let us pause to wonder what we mean by “controversial.”  I teach my students that it means “reasonable people may disagree” concerning an assertion.  In this sense, surely any important decision might be “controversial.”  This decision may be one such.  However, the local columnist Lopez cites certainly does not help me to decide what “reasonable people” think by supplying illiteracy like the following where reason ought to be:

Such a decree by the Catholic church sends the wrong message. It tells a male athlete that there is no reward for hard work and dedication in this instance. For the female, it has the same directive and taking it a step further, could diminish her self worth.

No one has the right to do that to another person. Sports is a microcosm of life, and we are taught to strive, to excel and reach our goals. When we get knocked down, we get back up and try again.

To me, this is taking that away. That what they — in this case a female wrestler — are trying to achieve doesn’t matter because of some old-fashioned perception that human nature trumps maturity.

[…]
What about the kid — male or female — that chooses to run five miles on Christmas morning instead of playing with his new Xbox or smart phone? They stick to a strict diet on these holidays while family members feast.

They deserve better. They deserve the freedom of choice and thinking for themselves. Not having someone do it for them.

(source: Catholic Dioceses of Harrisburg off base with archaic decree about girls and boys in high school wrestling: Elliott | PennLive.com)

Well, in any case, no dictionary need now go wanting for usage examples, s.v. “cliché-ridden”! Continue reading

“They’re Kind of the Opposite”

Anna & Elsa kids

I am a happy father this morning.

Last night my daughter was showing me the Frozen decorations we bought for her birthday party. One of them, clearly designed by someone deep in the bowls of the marketing department who was just running on autopilot, displayed this message: “Follow Your Heart.”

“I’m disappointed they put that on there,” I said to Anya. “That’s not the lesson of the movie.”

“What was the lesson of the movie?” she asked.

“You remember,” I said. “Olaf tells Anna: Love means putting other people’s needs ahead of yours.” Then I added the gag from that scene: “You know, like Krisoff, who brought you here to Hans and left you forever!”

We giggled together over the joke, then I brought her attention back to the lesson: “Love means putting other people’s needs ahead of yours.” Not “follow your heart.”

She looked at the decoration in her hand.

She pondered for a moment.

Then she said:

“Well . . . they’re kind of the opposite, aren’t they?”

I am a happy father this morning.

(Backfill here, here, here, and here.)